In a religion where families are everything, what if I don’t want a relationship with a sibling?: Ask Dr. Julie Hanks

In this episode, I coach Heather and address the question "In a religion where families are everything, what if I don’t want a relationship with a sibling?” Heather shares that while she has forgiven her siblings, she doesn’t want to be around them after what they did. I reaffirm that she has every right to decide who she wants in her life. You can fully forgive someone and choose not to have a relationship with them.

During this episode we also discuss that Heather is not responsible for the way her family will react to her decision. Her parents’ dream of having all of their children together and happy was broken by the sibling who harmed her, not by Heather choosing not to spend time with them as a result of their actions.

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