A Day In The Life: Meet Divorce Counselor Misty E. Vogel, MA
A ten year career in the mortgage banking industry not only prepared Misty Vogel, M.A., NCC for many of the business aspects of self-employment, but also for managing the intense emotions that come with major life transitions.Helping clients buy homes seems far from providing therapy, but the process of helping mortgage clients navigate intense emotions that surface during home purchasing has been added to Vogel's therapeutic skill set.Fresh out of graduate school, Vogel is just starting to build her practice in Denver and in Evergreen while she continues to work as an extern at Evergreen Psychotherapy Center, a practice specializing in treatment of attachment disordered children and families.In her private practice, Vogel combines her experience doing attachment work with her passion to help children and families navigate the difficulties of divorce and custody issues. Vogel's own parents divorced when she was 5 so she knows first-hand the impact divorce can have on the entire family. Peek into a day in the life of a therapist just beginning to build her private practice and see what it takes!
A Day In The Life
February 13, 20126:30AMAlarm is sounding and my husband is up and out of bed quickly. I, on the other hand, reach for my phone which is next to me on my nightstand, easy to check email from here. I turn on the local news to check the weather. No snow and warmer temperatures - happy about this, as it means I can go for a walk later (self-care).7:00AM - 8:15AMGetting ready for my day includes planning lunch and a change of clothes. My externship is located in the foothills outside of Denver in Evergreen, about a 30 minute commute on a good day.8:15AM - 8:50AMOn my commute to Evergreen! I can't complain, this drive is often quite picturesque. Many times the moon is setting to the west, or the snow capped mountains are glistening in the sun rising upon them, and, more often than not, I am fortunate enough to spot wildlife - buffalo, coyotes, elk, hawks, and even eagles once in a while! I also am lucky to use this time to make a few phone calls. (When I was still studying for the NCE exam, I used this commute to listen to Dr. Rosenthal's study CDs!)9:00AM - 12:00PMIn session, an intensive at my externship. Our current family is in real crisis. Mondays of the second week can be very tense because the families have just spent a couple of days outside of treatment and often they fall back to old patterns. Unfortunately, in this case, the crisis may not be diverted and it appears this week is going to be a tough one.12:00PM-12:50PMAn hour with an individual client - my own client, not part of the externship. Without a break between the intensive and my individual session, I am feeling some hunger pains! Those almonds didn't quite cut it.1:00PM - 1:30PMCommute back to Denver, meeting up with an old co-worker and friend who has a networking group she wants to introduce me to.1:30PM - 2:45PMLunch with friend. Networking is essential at this stage of opening my own practice. I also attend a Private Practice support group as well as numerous workshops and conferences.3:00PM - 4:00PMChanged into walking clothes at the restaurant and went for a walk at the park. This is my self-care time!4:15PM - 6:30PMBack at my home office. I make finishing touches to my post card announcements for my new practice and two offices. Order those online - some will be mailed to a small database and the rest will be distributed in local coffee shops and local hang-outs. Post a quote on my business Facebook page. I find that if I do this every day, people are more likely to remember me and my practice. Open up the project I am currently dreading…building my website. I am trying to determine if I chose the right web page host; it hasn't been a user-friendly experience thus far.6:30PM - 7:45PMCook and eat dinner with my husband. Catching up on one another's day. He is working on a start up company and we are also beginning the journey of seeking out fertility options. The journey has just begun. I filled my husband in on the task at hand getting in for a consultation with the fertility doc, information gathered on a phone call during my commute this morning.7:45PM - 9:00PMTook a little time to read up on divorce and attachment. I had downloaded a few articles over the weekend. I am considering writing a blog targeted to this population.9:00PM-10:00PMBoth my husband and I are exhausted. We treated ourselves to a few TV shows on the DVR. Turning off our brains before heading to bed tends to produce better sleep!10:00PMTurning in and thinking about the family I'll see tomorrow at Evergreen. They have been on my mind a great deal this afternoon.Find out more about Misty's practice at www.mistyvogel.com.If you'd like to submit a day in your life for this series, please contact me here.